The Necessity of Understanding: Transgender

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Convention defines genders — expectations and assumptions, truths that refuse to bend. The roles of women and men are as specific as they are narrow: crafted long ago, forced to remain even as the centuries yielded progress. Definitions are limiting. Rules are carefully maintained. And the result is a society that refuses to accept anything less than ordinary.

The public can survive such scrutiny. An individual, however, can’t. And those with transgender identities deserve the chance to express themselves.

The notion of transgender individuals often baffles. Its meanings are obscure; its purpose is often mistranslated. And what remains is a term that’s too often tossed about without understanding. Recognizing what it represents is essential, however — this is the only way to gain acceptance for it.

Simply explained, transgender is the label offered to those who defy traditional roles. Masculine and feminine traits are exchanged with ease; and personalities shape these individuals, rather than their assigned sexes. They don’t try to reconstruct their bodies (through surgery or medication). Instead they remain as they were born — but simply refuse to conform to what is expected of them.

It’s estimated that one in every 30,000 men is transgender, along with one of every 100,000 women. These numbers suggest a frequency that is often disregarded within the public — all of whom are too quick to assume that sexual identities are definite. It’s important to understand that this lifestyle is not rare and that it deserves recognition. Refusing to admit its existence is without purpose or compassion.

 

Coming Out in Society as a Transgender

Feeling born to the wrong body is how a transgender feels, like not matching the sex that they were basically assigned at birth. It is a state of self-discovery or how they identify themselves as man, woman, or both. There is no form specifically of sexual orientation or preferences for transgenders. They can be homosexual or heterosexual. The transgender can also be considered asexual or either of the controversial polysexual or pansexual.

 

Most of our society feels the gender of a person should be unchanging and rigid. People are uncomfortable about gender confusion and often do and say things that express their discomfort, causing transgenders to face harassment while going about daily interactions that are required. In their everyday life, basic events can have anxious moments such as renewing a driver’s license, boarding a plane, using their credit card, or going to a public restroom. Many transgenders take steps to express gender by shaving legs or they wear earrings. A transition can be formalized by a transsexual obtaining an amended or new birth certificate indicating new name and gender after a sex surgery, and then can use it to have the sex changed on their driver’s license.

 

Transgenders often encounter ignorance, hate, harassment, and threats of physical harm. Unfortunately, people fear the unknown and fear turns into hatred, and some choose to hate all people who are not like them. National, state, and local activists for GLBT are trying to pass hate crime laws that include gender. Over 175 law enforcement, religious, and civil rights organizations support this bill called the Local Law Enforcement Enhancement Act. There are eight states having laws covering hate crimes; Vermont, Pennsylvania, New Mexico, Missouri, Mississippi, Minnesota, Hawaii, and California, also the District of Columbia. The Human Rights Campaign Foundation continues their work until all American transgenders can be free of hate violence